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    10 Questions to Ask on a Senior Living Community Tour

    Debbie Appler

    Debbie Appler

    June 10, 2026

    10 Questions to Ask on a Senior Living Community Tour

    A tour is designed to impress you. That’s not a criticism, it’s the point. But families who ask the right questions leave with a much clearer picture than those who simply admire the lobby. Here are ten worth asking every time.

    About care and staffing

    1. What is the caregiver-to-resident ratio, day and night? Nights are when thin staffing shows.
    2. How do you handle a change in a resident’s care needs? You want to know whether a decline means a move.
    3. What is staff turnover like? Stable teams know residents as people.

    About daily life

    1. Can I see today’s actual activity calendar? Not a sample, today’s.
    2. What’s on the menu this week, and can residents choose?
    3. How do residents get to appointments and errands?

    About money and logistics

    1. What triggers a rate increase, and how much notice do families get?
    2. What happens if my loved one outlives their savings?
    3. What is the move-out policy and refund schedule?

    The most important one

    1. Can I speak with a current resident’s family member? A community proud of its care will say yes without hesitation.

    If you’d like a second set of experienced eyes on a tour, that’s exactly what I do. Reach out for a free consultation and I’ll help you read between the lines.

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