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10 Questions to Ask on a Senior Living Community Tour

Debbie Appler
June 10, 2026

A tour is designed to impress you. That’s not a criticism, it’s the point. But families who ask the right questions leave with a much clearer picture than those who simply admire the lobby. Here are ten worth asking every time.
About care and staffing
- What is the caregiver-to-resident ratio, day and night? Nights are when thin staffing shows.
- How do you handle a change in a resident’s care needs? You want to know whether a decline means a move.
- What is staff turnover like? Stable teams know residents as people.
About daily life
- Can I see today’s actual activity calendar? Not a sample, today’s.
- What’s on the menu this week, and can residents choose?
- How do residents get to appointments and errands?
About money and logistics
- What triggers a rate increase, and how much notice do families get?
- What happens if my loved one outlives their savings?
- What is the move-out policy and refund schedule?
The most important one
- Can I speak with a current resident’s family member? A community proud of its care will say yes without hesitation.
If you’d like a second set of experienced eyes on a tour, that’s exactly what I do. Reach out for a free consultation and I’ll help you read between the lines.